From what I've read so far, which isn't much coz I'm at work, it looks like its going to be really helpful. I've just read a bit that discusses one of the main reasons i have never stuck to any other diet plan like WW or SW.
He points out that as an EE (emotional eater) I am used to the immediate payoff that food gives. Whatever the problem or feeling the second i eat i will feel immediately better than i did. But, he explains, the reward you get from dieting - losing weight, happens slowly over time. So no matter how motivated you were at the beginning of the diet, after a while in your head you start to evaluate the future benefits of being slim versus the immediate payoff of overeating.
For me that has generally happened about 2 months in to whatever plan i was on. I would have big enough losses for the first 2 months (usually about 2 stone) to be enough of a reward to keep motivated and not need to overeat to feel better but there would always be that one week where you get weighed and you have only lost a pound or 1/2 pound and i would think that at that rate it would take me years to lose all of the weight. That would be it for me - straight to the take-away for the immediate relief that food brings. Then I would fall into the shame spiral and not go back to the plan/class. And the next thing i know i have gained that 2 stone i lost and another 2 as well.
Well on Cambridge i have got past that 2 month mark and by doing this work on emotional eating i have had a small loss week and i haven't relapsed back to the food to make me feel better. Yea me!
Its not till writing this post that I've understood the book title - SHRINK yourself - not just because you'll lose weight but because you will be your own therapist i.e shrink!!!
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